OH, the Places You’ll Go….


“Do ya miss me?” the text came on my phone as I was starting my last half hour of an hour of cardio at the gym. It was Dirk, of course, who I’d seen earlier that day with his skateboarding buddy, Doz who’d both worked out with me right after he’d got out of class. The gap between seeing each other was about three hours – just long enough for me to eat and recupe from the weight workout, take a fifteen minute snooze and head back into the gym for the cardio.
The two of them, Dirk and Doz, had made spectacular asses of themselves in the gym shower using it as a naked stage to sing and dance (shaking booties qualifies as dance in this venue) and they’d attracted the attention of quite a few of the guys in the locker room as an audience. Most people see…

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Longevity of a relationship. How I see it.



Let’s face it – being with someone takes time, energy and effort. Relationships don’t “just happen”, which is why most people consider them to be special in the first place.

If you are fortunate to have been in a longer term  relationship, you will at some point have the feeling that things are dull, too routine and not exiting enough.

Well that may be true however you have to always up your game, all the time.

Work is work, love is love:

We all need to work however sometimes we get obsessed with work and our careers. This could lead to the single life. Nobody deserves to play second to a career, or the pursuit of money and status. Yes we all have to work, just make time for your loved one.

Go on dates:

William and I have been together for over 12 years now. He was 19 when…

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